You either fit in or you stand out; you can’t have both. Everybody aspires to great things but few people are willing to rock the boat. You are either defending the status quo or challenging it. Playing defense and trying to keep everything ‘alright,’ or leading and provoking and striking to make everything better. If you always try to fit in, your life will be destined for mediocrity. Be the person in a crowd of blue shirts wearing a red one. Now that you have people’s attention, it’s time to perform. Show others why you deserve to have what you want. Be bold. Be unique. If you want a life that’s different from the majority of people, you must be willing to do things the majority of people won’t do. Those who stand out get noticed. Some people are afraid to have the ‘spot light’ on them. However, think about this. The only way you can truly have a meaningful impact on the world is if you think outside the box and challenge the status quo. By standing out you can have what you want, and make the impact you desire to create.

How do you get what you want?

To get what you want you have to deserve what you want. This world is 50/50. You give and then you receive. Do you get an amazing physique and then decide to start working out? I know we all wish that’s how it was (lol). The process is hard because it’s weeding out the weak. How bad do you want it? How hungry are you? Put in the time and you reap all the reward. More importantly, the way you’ll grow as a person will teach you what it takes to get what you want in any situation. Decide, commit, take massive action, repeat until you either get what you want or die! Martin Luther King Jr. said, “If you haven’t found something you are willing to die for you aren’t fit to live.” While this may sound a bit extreme, there is an important lesson to take from this quote. Are you truly living or just breathing? The point of life isn’t to simply exist, take up space for a short period of time, and then die. You must give your life a higher purpose. Find something you can commit every fiber of your being to. Something that satisfies your dreams, challenges your abilities, and continually forces you to grow. This is the only road to true success.

All my love,

Your Coach – Dr. Jamil

P.S. Whenever you’re ready to continue your transformation, here are a couple of ways I can help you create the life you dream of:

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